Friday, September 21, 2012

Storms ...

I am not afraid of storms ..
I am still learning to sail my ship ...
I am not afraid of pitfalls ..
I am still groping in darkness ...
I am not afraid of speed ...
I am still learning to drive ...
I am not afraid ....
Not afraid at all ...
I am not afraid of death ...
I am still learning to live.

I remember only 9th September ...

I remember only 9th September ...
Coz' that IS a special day .....
And, was a special day for her always...
The rest of the days had faded in the memory ....
Thanks for reminding ...
20th October .... Her Ram was born ....
She adored him , worshipped him ....
Doted over him .... He was her Krishna ...
Remember the parachute coming out on special occasions ...
Remember him eating the laddoos in the Temple ...
At Jaisalmer ... while everyone was engrossed in the Aarti ...
Chota Brigadier Sahib ... taking rounds of the lines ...
On Satinder's back or on his cycle ....
His camel 'Dulhan'.....
Playing in the dunes of the Golden city .....
Every memory ... like a movie reel whirring in front of the eyes ...
The beetles he caught ...
The goat he sat upon ....
The way he rearranged your office ....
Every memory as fresh as just happened ....
His Brigadier's Uniform ... still preserved ...
I haven't forgotten ...
Just a lapse in memory due to numbness of senses ...
Humans! We humans suffer from our tragedies ...
Then the daily grind of life beckons ...
Still tried giving them the best ...
Taught them Golf ...
That's another story ...
Other people got hurt with the shots.....
They are the best Swimmers...
They are the best Cyclists... 18 gear cycle ...
Infact, Anusuya is a wonder unfolding each day despite her special needs ...
She is one of the best swimmers, basketball is very dear to her,
She plays cricket and football...
Like Dravid... she is The Wall ....
The best defence any team can get....
A stand up comedienne ...
A great artist in the making ....
Art and design being her favourite subject ....
An Environmentalist to the core ...
And, the best friend anyone can get....
The boy is a boy wonder ...
A genius to the core ....
Known as Junior Professor in his Degree College ...
Overburdened with projects and responsibilities ....
But, the best genes in him are a living proof in the personality and his Charisma ...
A computing wizard.....
An excellent Orator ...
A Mass Media student ...
He is a hit with the crowds ...
Watch the links I sent on your FB message...
Life goes on ....
They are the gems that are shining ....
The glory of two different genes ...
The best combination genetically ...

Remind me .... you have a better memory ...
And, I shall pen down every moment .....
So that generations to come shall relive the moments ...
We lived ...
A fitting tribute to the Elders ...
Dear and departed ....
And still around.

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Empty pocket ....


Life is like a camera ...


Life is full of years that sometimes mean nothing and moments that mean everything....

Yes, Life is full of years that sometimes mean nothing and moments that mean everything.... Reliving those moments in those years ... Forty two springs ... Forty two monsoons .... waiting for the forty second winter too ......

Times to remember  .... that left an indelible mark on the soul with an ink that can not be erased ... nor does it get smudged with the passage of time .... some memories, moments , relations that cannot be overwritten too.

Some beautiful moments ... some irresponsible moments that one felt at that moment were right ... Mistakes .. irrevocable mistakes ... lessons learnt over the period of time ... Time is the best healer ... but; people left behind .... and now we are just too far apart ... miles and miles of chasm that can't be filled ever ... nor a bridge that can be built now ... too late.

I dunno why am in a retro mood but music in the background is retro too ... maybe that is making me remember the past .. a beautiful legacy for the kids .... some beautiful moments to be written about and left behind for the future generations.

Am waiting to be a Grandmom ... so that I can feel the happiness of my genes passed on ... for living forever through my Grandchildren. That's how Grandparents feel ... total recall and happiness.

When ...

When you truly care for someone, their mistakes never change your feelings because it's the mind that gets angry but the heart still cares.

A real family consists of three generations .... "To forget one's ancestors is to be a brook without a source, a tree without a root."


My speech for Grandparents Day ....

A real family consists of three generations.....
We had four ....

"To forget one's ancestors is to be a brook without a source, a tree without a root."

"No one ... who has not known that inestimable privilege can possibly realise what good fortune it is to grow up in a home where there are grandparents."

"There's nothing like having a grandchild to restore faith to heredity."

"The reason grandchildren and grandparents get along so well is that they have a common enemy."

"Something magical happens when parents turn into grandparents. Their attitude changes from "money-doesn't-grow-on-trees" to spending it like it does."

"It would be more honourable to our distinguished ancestors to praise them in words less, but in deeds to imitate them more."

"Everyone needs to have access both to grandparents and grandchildren in order to be a full human being."

"The history of our grandparents is remembered not with rose petals but in the laughter and tears of their children and their children's children. It is into us that the lives of grandparents have gone. It is in us that their history becomes a future."

"My great grandfather used to say to his wife, my great-grandmother, who in turn told her daughter, my grandmother, who repeated it to her daughter, my mother, who used to remind her daughter, my own sister, that to talk well and eloquently was a very great art, but that an equally great one was to know the right moment to stop."

"Two things I dislike about my grandson — when he won't take his afternoon nap, and when he won't let me take mine."

"The birth of a grandchild is a wonderful and exciting event! That wonder and excitement continues throughout life."

"Grandfathers do have a special place in the lives of their children's children. They can delight and play with them and even indulge them in ways that they did not indulge their own children. Grandfather knows that after the fun and games are over with his adorable grandchildren he can return to the quiet of his own home and peacefully reflect on this phenomenon of fatherhood."

"The presence of a grandparent confirms that parents were, indeed, little once, too, and that people who are little can grow to be big, can become parents, and one day even have grandchildren of their own. So often we think of grandparents as belonging to the past; but in this important way, grandparents, for young children, belong to the future."

"You must teach your children that the ground beneath their feet is the ashes of your grandfathers. So that they will respect the land, tell your children that the earth is rich with the lives of our kin. Teach your children what we have taught our children, that the earth is our mothers. Whatever befalls the earth befalls the sons of the earth. 

"Our land is everything to us.... I will tell you one of the things we remember on our land. We remember that our grandfathers paid for it — with their lives."

"Grandparents are a family's greatest treasure, the founders of a loving legacy, The greatest storytellers, the keepers of traditions that linger on in cherished memory. Grandparents are the family's strong foundation. Their very special love sets them apart. Through happiness and sorrow, through their special love and caring, grandparents keep a family close at heart."

"Truth be told, there's nothing better than being a grandparent. All our elders know this and it is evidenced by that twinkle in their eyes. Of course, they know more than they let on — life's secrets have come to them through time, experience, and patience."

"A zest for life is one of the most important examples a grandparent can pass on to their grandchildren."


Wednesday, September 19, 2012

The Essence of a family ....

The essence of  a family ....
Need not be a man ...
A man can only sire ...
But, a woman is the one that leads the family on ....
Takes the burden all alone ...
Gives the best of her years to her kids ..
Sacrifices it all ...
The man just walks away ...
Finds a new abode.
He takes his scent and soul with him ...
Not a drop of his ESSENCE left behind ....
Just memories to live by ....
Just a few memories ...
Nothing else.
What was good was written about ....
That is what matters .....
It wasn't written to call back the lost one ....
It was written for history ...
When I am no more ....
The generations to come shall know their ROOTS ...
From Peshawar & Rawalpindi to Pathankot ...
To Delhi to Chandigarh to Dehradun ...
From Jaisalmer to Thiruvananthpuram ....
North, South, East & West ....
From the Sire missing his Dad's shaving kit as a tiny tot shitting on a pot early in the morning ...
When Grand dad would be out on Army Duty ...
To Great Grand dad and his shayari and Gandhian principles ...
Great Grand Mom and her histrionics ....
Lots....
A whole history to be passed on ...
A family tree to be familiarised with ...
Who will do that?
There is no family here....
There never was ....
Somebody has to let the name live on.
The essence has to be preserved ....
Who will do that?